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This is the story of an amazingly courageous woman who traveled from Europe to Zimbabwe on her own, and what a story it is!This book reall...
Alice
Dot Bekker…my favourite person. I feel like I know but I don’t. I’ve read your book describing your amazing journey about going home to Zimbabwe...
Adele
What an amazing read,what a brave woman!!!I just cant put the book down, shes such a good writer ❤️ (Facebook)
Thoko
This book was an answered prayer, a daily entertainment and a true inspiration. I feel like I know Dot personally after reading this book....
Michelle
I found “Going Home to Africa” a gripping, authentic, informative and humorous book! Gripping…in the countless unpredictable travel/r...
Gerald
From the first chapter I was hooked and followed Dot's adventures down the coast of West Africa with awe. I bought the book because I too am con...
Jordan
Dot took me on the journey of a lifetime. I witnessed the challenges, frustrations, joys and overwhelming beauty of Africa from the comfort of m...
Wendy
I had the pleasure of meeting Dot when she was living in Solsona and have followed her adventures on Going Home to Africa on IG. I have been so ...
Ruth
This is a brilliant story of a lovely lady driving solo from Northern Africa through many countries to go home to Zimbabwe. This touches my hear...
Dallas
Going home to Africa is an honest, humble and uplifting account of an incredible adventure and Dot’s fighting spirit and firm belief in the univ...
Fiona
Absolutely Compelling I could not put this book down and I am not an avid reader, getting bored quickly. I loved every moment of her jou...
Antoinette
FANTASTIC BOOK! I LOVED every page of this book and didn't want it to end. I have read many travelogues and this was by far my favourite...
Kevin
My first impression was just: Wow! Hats off! What an impressive book... I can already now say that it is, along with Doris Kearns Goodwin's Pulitze...
Susanne
Dot is one of the most amazing "road" friends we made while overlanding through Africa, and whatever we were doing she brought a tremendous sense o...
Laurie
I absolutely love travelling so this story really spoke to me. Having followed Dot in real time on her epic journey, I’m now absolutely loving the ...
Catherine
I think the fact that you share ALL of your experiences, good and bad, and do NOT leave out the huge challenges and obstacles you had to face on a ...
Susanne
I’ve just been spending the whole evening with your book. I feel so fascinated by your story and I love the way you’re describing both breathtaking...
Alexandra
Absolutely loved it. Very inspiring and Dot I would love to meet you one day when I visit Zimbabwe again. Thank you for sharing this amazing story....
Justyna
I have just finished reading Going Home to Africa and I really enjoyed it. I enjoyed it more as the journey went on... Her experiences become more ...
Nicola

Going Home to Africa

My 20 000km journey home through West Africa

Personal Safety Tips

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I've been asked frequently about my safety, as a woman, during my journey through Africa and people are usually surprised at how few problems I had.  To be honest I was never mugged or attacked, I fell prey to a switch and bait but other than that I never feared for my safety.  Perhaps it was luck, perhaps I did the right things.

I have to say that I didn't go into Africa with a Pollyanna approach, I took lots of precautions, most of them small but they all added to my safety and personal confidence.  I believe that personal confidence has a lot to do with safety, with an added touch of sceptisim.  I grew up in Africa, it is a continent of haves and have nots, this means that there is poverty and where there is poverty there is someone looking to improve their lot at someone's expense.  

Below I've itemised what I did to ensure my safety and I hope that it may help you the reader if you're embarking on any journey, safety first.

 

  • PERSONAL CONFIDENCE - I'm going to start here as I personally believe that this is a major ingredient to safety.  Let's face it if you are walking around confused, insecure and frightened you have a big target on your back because you are easy prey.  It would be easier to attack you than it would be me.  Whilst I have age and a lack of fitness against me I made sure that I walked the streets like someone who belonged there.  As a follower once sent me a photo of a person in a hooded cloak with a sword and the words were "If you're going to walk through hell, walk like you own the place", she felt it reminded her of me and to be honest it was true. Don't walk arrogantly though this is actually a signal of weakness and you'll still be easy prey.  I used my non-verbal knowledge, be prepared; look like you know where you are going, even if you are lost; walk with confidence, shoulders back head up and be alert to your surroundings; smile and look people in the eye.

 

  • SMILES & GREETINGS  - I would say that this was my #1 weapon.  I used it constantly, 'kill them with courtesy', it's easy to be unpleasant to someone who is unpleasant but when you attack them with a smile and a kind greeting it is more difficult for them to be discourteous.  Add a dash of humour and in Africa you'll usually be rewarded with a large grin, African's are by nature warm and social people, take the time to shake hands, chat and answer their questions as politely as possible, they are curious as they may not have met someone like you.  I've used just these to beat even the most hardened police check point officers.

 

  • CROSS BODY BAG - it was a purchase that was slightly more than I'd have liked to pay but it was one that was worth it.  I bought a bag with a cut resistant strap, preventing theft in that manner.  It also had loops on each corner so that I could interchange the way I carried it, this also made it easy to carry the bag part in front of me when I was walking in crowds or places where I wasn't too sure of pick pockets and the like.  My bag also had a zip pouch at the back so that even if they did access my bag they couldn't get to my passport. Being in my van meant that I didn't have to carry the kitchen sink with me so I only carried what was necessary also preventing me from having to be distracted by digging in my bag. 

 

  • MONEY - I only carried some of my money, stashing some in hidden places within my van.  I seldom drew large amounts of cash and I folded bills of specific denominations so that I never had to pull out a wad of cash and count it in the street (being one of the places I did most of my shopping).

 

  • WEAPONS - i was often advised, mainly by Americans, to carry weapons.  The problem for me with weapons is if you're not skilled at them and not 100% sure you're going to use them they can and will be used against you.  Additionally they are paranoid about guns in Africa and a number of times I was asked if I was carrying guns, I am certain that if I was it would have complicated matters.  I did however have an extendable baton which I only ever showed a couple of times to demonstrate that I was not helpless.  Note too that in some countries tasers and pepper sprays are illegal and note there are no bears in Africa so I'm not sure that one will fly.

 

  • ALARMS - I did what most people did, I only alarmed my van once it had been broken into and that wasn't in Africa.  As BlueBelle has windows all round but some of them are boarded, making it more difficult to access, I secured the remaining vulnerable windows with stick on window alarms.  These can be switched on individually and are sensitive to the knocking on the window or door.  I had a couple of occasions when they went off and I guess they did their job as there was no one around and they woke me up.

 

  • CLUTCH LOCK -  My worst case scenario would have been that someone stole my van as such securing it from theft was my priority.  I struggled to find a steering wheel lock that fit my larger steering wheel and eventually opted for a badass clutch lock.  I did have one worry that they might break in and not see it so I painted the top of the lock luminous green and so far it has worked fine.

 

  • GUARDS - in Africa people will do almost anything to earn some honest money and I found that it was cheaper to pay a car guard or someone on the street to look after my vehicle than to spend my time worrying about whether my van was safe.  I would try to agree a rate before I left them to it, unless I already knew the going rate.  I would also only pay them on returning to my vehicle and when I was already safely in the car, paying them through the window.  I would always tell them what was happening i.e. "I'm first going to get in my van and then come to the window and I will pay you before I leave".  This prevented me scratching around in my bag or purse and safeguarded me from any opportunists.

 

  • INSTINCTS - when you get to the place where you can trust your instincts that is the best place to be, listen to what they are saying and don't override them.  If I felt unsafe I would move my van or, if I was walking,  I would change my route or walk into a store. 

 

My final word is that if you're coming to Africa, don't treat it like where you came from, immerse yourself as much as you feel safe doing and enjoy Africa, the people are the warmest people and when you let them they will keep you smiling despite the frustrations that also go along with being on this continent.

 

Stay safe, be happy.

Copyright

© Dot Bekker

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About Dot

Dot is Zimbabwean born and raised and after having lived in Europe for 20 years she decided to return home but uniquely she decided to drive  through Africa to get there.

She achieved her dream by driving 20,000kms through 18 West African countries over 8.5 months on her own for most of the journey.  Her book of the same title will soon be launched,and you can find out more about Dot or subscribe to the Blog for more.

 

Kusasa Scholarship Fund

Alongside my journey I've decided to raise funds for scholarships for girl's education in Zimbabwe, find out more about that here, to contribute to the Scholarship Fund please do so here.